Do you remember how old were you when you went out alone first time? How did you feel? Were you scary at that time? What did your parents do and say? Nowadays, numerous parents worry about their children safety problems. They try to preserve children as they can. Because more and more children want to independent; they do not want to relay on their parents every time; they need their parents to trust them. However, child going out alone cause a serious problem. Should parents allowed children to go out alone? How old should a child be to go out alone? When I saw The New York Times, a headline named “With Boy’s Killing, Parents Confront Worst Fears” caught my interested.
This article mainly talks about a boy who implored his parents for permission to walk home from camp alone, then, he got lost and met a stranger who abducted and killed him. This bad occurrence happened on a Brooklyn family. The body of eight- year-old Leiby Kletzky was found amputated two days after he disappeared on a short walk between his day camp and where he was supposed to meet his parents. This tragedy makes most of parents feared, they worry about their children’s safety; they could not imagine if their children get into trouble.
I still remember when I went to school alone, I was afraid of crossing road because there were a lot of cars drove rapidly. However, the crime rate is increased in some countries such as murder, rape, and loot. From my point of view, there is no exactly age on when child should be goes out alone since anyone is not really “safe” anymore. Even though you are an adult, bad things also happen to you. Every one taking a risk when we go out alone and sometimes with people. Nowadays, home invasions are very popular and it is sorrowful to imagine we cannot even be safe in our own homes. On the other hand, children are being hurt by adults and other children at school. As parents, they wish they could watch their kids all the time to protect them, make them far away from danger; nevertheless, that is impossible. Consequently, parents should enlighten their children how to be safe and defend themselves. Parents also have responsibilities keeping children out of as many bad situations as they can. In a word, parents should teach children how to fish rather than give them fishes.
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